Do you help people say no?

As a general rule, people who end up in Full-time paid ministry are they type of people who can either say “yes” to everything (and get it done), or they’re the type of people who feel comfortable saying “no” to things that others want them to do.

If that’s you, that means your weird!!!

Most people can’t deal with saying “yes” everything, and most people don’t feel comfortable saying “no” when asked to do something.

Now, simply stating that people should feel comfortable saying “no” misses the point. You know that, because you probably find it easier than most, or you’ve learnt how to do it for years.

So, understand you’re different and that people probably aren’t all like you. And after you thank God, help them work out whether they should be saying “no”.