It is a firm reluctance to trust the word of God as authoritative when people assume they can only be “pastored” by a minister/church staff/gospel worker who has been through what they’ve been through.
The single person CAN do marriage prep with an engaged couple, leading them through it.
The always-employed person CAN minister to the unemployed person.
The heterosexual CAN minister to the one struggling with homosexual desires.
The never-held-a-real-job-other-than-ministry person CAN offer spiritual guidance to the 45 yr old business man.
You don’t need an older wiser person around… As if their life experience has made them wiser. You just need a wise person. And how do we become wise?
from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God[a] may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.