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  • Another thought on explaining why God only asks men to preach to men

    A while back I wrote my response to someone who wants to submit to the bible’s teaching on men only teaching men. It used the metaphor of men protecting women in the event of a machine-gun attack. I thought of… Continue reading

    Another thought on explaining why God only asks men to preach to men
  • Why staff don’t take gifts

    This is just one of the principles we made clear from the start with our staff. Staff don’t take gifts from the congregation. There’s OK gifts like “let me buy you a coffee” or “It’s your birthday”… they are common gifts… Continue reading

    Why staff don’t take gifts
  • Moving up the ministry hour-glass

    When you’re a young christian, it’s almost as if everything is for you. Church feels aimed at you. There’s a special group for people new like you. You get invited to camps and getaways that teach you things you’ve never… Continue reading

    Moving up the ministry hour-glass
  • Reblog: If you had the cure…?

    You might have heard the illustration that asks Christians, “if we had the cure for cancer, how would you feel if we only reached 3% of the sick population? We wouldn’t be happy with that… so why are we content… Continue reading

    Reblog: If you had the cure…?
  • Grace makes every story a miracle story

    If God’s grace is the basis for salvation, that means that every salvation is only by grace. Simple, right? Always comes out in the way you speak, right? Think about it… every salvation is only by grace… so every christian… Continue reading

    Grace makes every story a miracle story
  • Spell out the consequences… clearly and with examples

    One of the common ways which those of us in christian leadership fail is in our communication. We communicate ideas and big pictures of things that are clear in our head, however… our hearers only get a fuzzy idea of… Continue reading

    Spell out the consequences… clearly and with examples
  • The values of competition

    In some circles competition is shunned and avoided at all costs. And there can be some very good reasons for avoiding competition – especially when dealing with people who have a very competitive nature. However, not everyone has a competitive… Continue reading

    The values of competition
  • “I haven’t started giving because…”

    It’s worth being aware of the many reasons we Christians (myself included) come up with to justify being all “I love JESUS!” with our mouths, but all “I can’t give money”. You’ve probably heard the line, “the last part of… Continue reading

    “I haven’t started giving because…”
  • Reblog: What MTS experience is worth having before college?

    After catching up with some Moore College students who just finished first year, I was reminded how the type of MTS experience you get is so important. College doesn’t teach you how to “do ministry”; it doesn’t teach methods, principles… Continue reading

    Reblog: What MTS experience is worth having before college?
  • Dream!

    Leading, delegating, starting, serving… they all require a little bit of dreaming. Sometimes, they require a lot of dreaming. What would you LOVE to see happen… don’t worry about “how” it will happen just yet… just imagine. What would you… Continue reading

    Dream!
  • Should you serve if you don’t have the skills?

    Some Christians will “humbly” say they can’t do this or they can’t take on that because they feel they don’t have the required skills. This presents an opportunity to pastor them: Jesus designed them with gifts to serve the body… Continue reading

    Should you serve if you don’t have the skills?
  • Gossip or be content when people misunderstand your decisions. You can only choose one.

    Many decisions in Christian leadership are tricky. This is especially so when the information you have to make those decisions includes sin and maturity issues. Why? Because for people to understand the leadership’s decision, they would have to be given… Continue reading

    Gossip or be content when people misunderstand your decisions. You can only choose one.
  • Another attempt to pictorally display church

    Recently we had our AGM which gave us another opportunity to try and help our church see itself. That might seem like a strange idea, but for most people, they only see (or even hear) about the aspects of their… Continue reading

    Another attempt to pictorally display church
  • Reblog: Evangelism trumps everything

    If you’re in Christian leadership, you probably already think this. But don’t assume your people get it. You need to play out what it means… If you have to choose between going to your small group or taking a non-Christian… Continue reading

    Reblog: Evangelism trumps everything
  • How should you instill in people a godly ambition to take on more responsibility?

    It’s helpful when people “step-up” and take on more responsibility. It allows leaders to delegate more and start new things and keep things going. But how should we motivate people to step-up? Rewards? Notoriety? Offer to meet up with them… Continue reading

    How should you instill in people a godly ambition to take on more responsibility?
  • The 2 types of new people… On my terms or your terms

    As you welcome new people to church, one (of the many) things to be aware of is how willing they are to join church on church’s terms or on their own terms. The person who comes to church on their… Continue reading

    The 2 types of new people… On my terms or your terms
  • The only things you should advertise at church are…

    Churches seems to have such a quandary about saying no to advertising things out the front. Its hard when someone runs up to you and says they need, really really need to you advertise their thing today!!! When the reality… Continue reading

    The only things you should advertise at church are…
  • The Maturity Podcast

    For a while now, Richard Sweatman and I have been recording a podcast quite like this blog. It’s brief, practical, and keeps thinking from the big principles. It’s called “The Maturity Podcast” and it’s aimed at helping Growth Group leaders… Continue reading

    The Maturity Podcast
  • Reblog: You are, by God’s design, a decision making machine

    1Cor 3 reminds us that we don’t actually make disciples, we don’t actually make people change or grow. God makes those things happen, by his Spirit. But we do make decisions – that God uses. I don’t just mean that… Continue reading

    Reblog: You are, by God’s design, a decision making machine
  • Don’t “act” out the front of church

    Don’t pretend you don’t know what’s going on. Don’t make out like that interview answer surprised you. Don’t act like you’re being spontaneous when you’ve planned it all out. Why? First, because unless you’re a trained, seasoned actor… You suck… Continue reading

    Don’t “act” out the front of church